
A man is not hurt so much by what happens as by his opinion of what happens.
- Topic: Attitude, Choice, Self, Stress
- Location: Yosemite National Park
- Photo: Jeffrey Benjamin
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Pain is certain, suffering is optional.
But we cannot simply sit and stare at our wounds forever.
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I'm a writer, and I will write what I want to write.
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Peaces comes from within. Do not seek it without.
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If you are ever tempted to look for outside approval, realize that you have compromised your integrity.
We all walk in the dark and each of us must learn to turn on his or her own light.
The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases. Each of us carries his own life-form—an indeterminable form which cannot be superseded by any other.
There is virtue in work and there is virtue in rest. Use both and overlook neither.
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Self-control is strength. Right thought is mastery. Calmness is power.
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