Talking with a person is different than speaking at them.

If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.

Fear not those who argue but those who dodge.

Aloha is free.

No problem is so deep that it cannot be overcome, given the will of all parties, through discussion and negotiation rather than force and violence.

When one remains silent in the face of oppression, one is on the side of the oppressor.

Silence is one of the great arts of conversation.

The thing I hate about an argument is that it always interrupts a discussion.

An inability to stay quiet . . . is one of the most conspicuous failings of mankind.

The No. 1 reason people fail in life is because they listen to their friends, family, and neighbors.

We are all one family in the world. Building a community that empowers everyone to attain their full potential through each of us respecting each other's dignity, rights and responsibilities makes thee world a better place to live.

You should respect each other and refrain from disputes; you should not, like water and oil, repel each other, but should, like milk and water, mingle together.